Honesty With God

Every now and then I make some rather audacious statements concerning Christianity. I suppose making these types of statements, for me, is a natural out flowing of seeking to be faithful to God.

I made one such audacious statement in a sermon the last Sunday of 2012. I sought to brace the people of New Life so it would not catch them completely off guard. I warned them that some would not like what I was about to say…but I was OK with that. However, I did relay my hope that they would ponder and pray about the statement and hopefully come to a point of agreeing with it in the near future. I went on to say that God knows what He is doing.

I kept going for a bit, but it seemed my point was missed, so I let them know I had made my audacious statement – God knows what He is doing. This promptly drew a few chuckles and not a few puzzled looks. So I added that we ought to give the Creator of everything the benefit of the doubt – He knows what He is doing.

I was serious when I said it then, and am serious while writing about it now. We, the finite creation, need to give the Infinite Creator of EVERYTHING the benefit of the doubt and trust He knows what He is doing. 

Well, this may sound nice, but what difference does it actually make? Is there any impact for my life you may ask. Yes, there is. The benefits that come from being honest with God are immense.

Think back to when you were a kid. Did you ever get in trouble? If you did not please feel free to stop reading right now. Better yet, call your parents and ask them (if you still have contact with them that is).

Anyway, did you ever try and deny what you did, while not knowing your parents knew what you did, and therefore receive a more harsh punishment? Conversely, did you ever confess what you did and get a bit lighter punishment?  Some may be able to relate to this analogy, others may not. Regardless, it is a way to understand something about God. Namely, honesty with God is a good thing. When we are honest with Him there is forgiveness and empowerment. Yet when we are dishonest with Him there is bondage and misery. 

A lot of God’s people need to be honest with Him and confess a variety of things. Think of all the problems in The Church right now. A lack of forgiveness leads to people leaving churches, and worse yet, splitting churches. Materialism is out of control, which leads to next-to-nothing giving (on the overall scale) and needs being unnecessarily unmet all around us – and the world.  A lack of prayer leads to people not seeking God’s guidance and will for their lives; simultaneously they go about living their lives as if they have no need for God. This is further shown by a lack of reading in God’s Word while making time for newspapers, magazines, TV shows, recreation, etc.

I realize all of those can have their justifications. For lack of time I will not mention any, only to provide what I hope to be a future link. Yet justifications are not confession…and they will keep people in bondage to the habits, and whatever else, is influencing them. 

So, what is one to do? Well, in light the audacious thought of “God knows what He is doing,” how about doing the following. Find Scripture that addresses a certain issue with which you struggle, read it, be honest with God, and ask for help. It would look something like this…

If you struggle with forgiveness read Matthew 5:43-48 (where Jesus tell us to love our enemies), you might also read Matthew 18:21-35 (a parable about unforgiveness). Then say something like, “God, I am not there right now…I can’t forgive this person…what is more, I don’t really even want to forgive this person…yet I know Your word tells me I must forgive them…God, please help me…please give me a desire to forgive because right now I do not even have it…and honestly, I don’t even want that desire…BUT I trust You more than I trust me.”

That may sound foolish, but I assure you, it is not. It is not because of a few things: 1) you are in God’s word, 2) you are praying to (communicating with) God, 3) you are being honest with God, and 4) it opens the door for God to do what only He can do. Seriously, do you think He is unaware of your lack of a desire to forgive someone? Do you really want to continue to feel bad for not reading or praying? Do you really want to live in disobedience while being deceived by the evil one?

I did not think so.

I challenge you to try this method with whatever issue you are facing in your life. For some, it may need to start by reading 2 Corinthians 4:4 (Satan blinding eyes), 2 Corinthians 10:4-6 (taking thoughts captive), and Matthew 4:9 (showing Satan’s ownership of this world). Satan (though defeated and bound) is alive and well enough to cause havoc in the lives of anyone – including those seeking to follow God. Maybe we all need to beg God to be merciful and reveal where we are being deceived by the evil one.

None of us are above that…and after all, honesty with God is a good thing. 

Christmas Season [5]

Merry Christmas everyone! Yes, it still is X-mas...for a few more days that is. Here is a post from last year, just before the end of the Christmas Season. I hope to have a follow-up post in a few days with further reflections, clarifications, and possibly retractions.


A Post from last Christmas...
For the last time until next December, Merry Christmas!!  Oh I know it seems like Christmas was like a year ago now [hahaha ;) ].  Yet it truly is still Christmas!!! 

Again, I say this because Christmas is a season, not merely a day.  The Christmas Season, of which there are 12 days, ends today with Epiphany.  Therefore many churches will celebrate Epiphany this coming Sunday.  The distinction between the Christmas Season and the cultural way of celebrating Christmas is significant – even if someone in our culture seeks to keep a focus on Jesus.  The reality is a day can be quickly forgotten once it is gone, no matter how good it was.  Granted, a focus on a day can produce many great memories.  Yet a season – a celebration – can make more than great memories.  Indeed, it can lay a foundation for a longer lasting impact while setting the stage for godly memories to be made for generations to come. 

So what if we really worked at celebrating the Christmas Season?  Now I suppose a way many would be thrilled to do this is if we took 12 days off as opposed to one (well, all but the self-employed that is).  Yet I am not talking about 11 more days of vacation.  I am talking about continually pondering, and seeking to implement, implications of the Incarnation.  The truth that nearly 2,000 years ago Jesus came to earth and lived among us is life-altering.  The Anointed One of God, the savior, the Christ – the King, living among us…showing us how to live…bringing people into community…showing us how to love…showing us how to confront religious distortions and apathy…indeed showing us what it means to be truly human.  

Epiphany is the climax of the Christmas Season.  It recalls the coming of the Wisemen, or Magi, to see Jesus the toddler.  Ah yes, the King of the world…quite unassuming with skinned knees and more than a few bruises on his little body no doubt.  While we do not know for certain, it is believed these Magi came from the area of Babylon.  The significance of this blossoms when we begin to see what Matthew is showing us in his gospel in conjunction with some things in the book of Daniel.  Succinctly, Matthew is showing Jesus as King.  These Magi show up and worship the toddling Jesus as a King.  These Magi were Gentiles – i.e., not of Jewish ethnicity.  This foreshadows the inclusive nature of God’s Kingdom which Jesus came to establish.  Now let us turn to Daniel.

Daniel clearly shows the sovereignty of God despite current circumstances.  On the surface it seems the gods of Babylon have proven to be more powerful than the God of Israel, YHWH.  After all, Israel is now in exile.  Yet in chapter one verse two we read, “And the Lord gave Jehoiakim king of Judah into his hand…”  The “his hand” is Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon from verse one.  In other words, while it may appear “old Nebby-K” is ruling and calling the shots, YHWH is truly in charge.  The reason why Israel/Judah was in exile was their lack of worship, and all it entails, of YHWH.  This makes certain scenes in Daniel beautifully ironic as God works in such ways that pagan people praise His greatness when His own covenant people did not.  One example of this is toward the end of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego’s encounter with a blazing hot fire (or Rack, Shack and Benny if you are a Veggie Tales fan).  After God saves these three, Nebuchadnezzar blesses their God (Dan3:28) and then says, “Therefore I make a decree: Any people, nation, or language that speaks anything against the God of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego shall be torn limb from limb, and their houses laid in ruins, for there is no other god who is able to rescue (save) in this way.” – High praise indeed for the one true God. 

Now consider this.  Daniel and his three friends (Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego) had other encounters with the people of Babylon.  These encounters included the magicians, enchanters, sorcerers, and Chaldeans (cf. Dan2:2) – all of whom were confronted with a God more powerful than anything they could imagine.  More than likely some of these people began to worship this “God of gods and Lord of kings” (cf. Dan2:47).  Daniel tells of “one like a Son of Man” in chapter seven coming to the earth to receive a kingdom.  This “one like a Son of Man” is also the rock of chapter two which breaks the grand statue (representing kingdoms of the earth – including Babylon) in Nebuchadnezzar’s dream to pieces.  And in Matthew’s gospel (written primarily for a Jewish audience) he shows Magi (from the area of Babylon) showing up to worship this foretold King.  This is beyond cool – this is revolutionary. 

Epiphany celebrates the “revealing” of the Christ to the Gentiles (i.e., all not ethnically Jewish).  As such it looks ahead to the reason why The Church exists – to advance the Kingdom of God everywhere for everyone.  What a fitting climax to the significance of the Christmas Season!!! 

I am certain you have heard there were three Wisemen (Magi) – e.g., “We Three Kings of Orient Are”.  Yet you will not find that number in the second chapter of Matthew.  You will find three gifts, but more than likely Matthew highlighted those three because of their significance.  At any rate, let us go along with this tradition and say the “three kings” were Caspar, Balthasar and Melchior.  A symbol for Epiphany, which is often painted above the entry door to a house in some cultures, is +C+B+M+  

The symbols are as follows: the cross (+) represents Christ, the letters (C,B,M) represent the supposed names of the (supposed) three Magi.  Added to this symbol is the year – so for us it would be 20+C+B+M+12.  Since in this symbol the letters represent the three Magi (Gentiles) who came to worship the true King let us add an accurate twist to the symbol.  [Also, I am not saying to put this over the entry door to your house – a piece of paper you carry with you, display somewhere visible to you, perhaps put in your Bible (i.e., multiple copies) will suffice.]  

Try this: write out the symbol but put in the first letter of the names of three people you know who need to submit themselves to Jesus and truly worship the King (e.g., 20+__+__+__+12).  Pray for these people regularly; ask God to continue to work in their lives, to open their eyes to His love and majesty, to work in you to speak when the time is right and show the love of Jesus at all times to them.  After all, all who are Gentiles now are those who are not a part of the people of God.  I.e., it is no longer ethnicity that makes one a child of God (thank you Jesus). 

This is an accurate focus on the implications of the Incarnation.  There are people, we all know, who need to come and truly worship the King.  Oh what a way to live out the Lordship of Jesus in this New Year. 

Merry Christmas and Holy Epiphany to you!!  May God grant us the strength to follow through with the things to which He will call us. 

"Heavenly Man" - Ch2 - (Un)Answered Prayers

While the account of how Brother Yun received a Bible is exciting, there is a detail in it that gives me pause – to say the least.  

Basically Yun prayed for a month for a Bible; nothing happened.  Then he was told (by the former pastor who told him to initially pray for a Bible) to weep and fast while praying.  Yun did this for 100 days (eating only a small bowl of rice at night – cf. the previous post and a hunger for God’s Word).  Then one night Yun had a vision, in which, he received a Bible; it became reality very early the next morning.  It seems miraculous to me.  At least it is outside of my personal realm of experience.  On one hand it is exciting and I praise God for it, yet on another hand I am unsettled by a detail in the account.     

An evangelist, who had suffered much (including 20 years in prison) for his faith, had a vision three months before Yun got his Bible.  In the vision this evangelist saw not only Brother Yun, but also the location of his parent’s house in their village - he was told to give his hidden Bible to Yun.  Having done some quick math it was easy to see that God answered Yun’s prayer…after about 10 days, not 100.  I.e., He gave a vision to this evangelist telling him what to do.  Yet due to the evangelist’s fear it took around 90 more days (equaling the 100 days Yun says it took) for God’s answer to Yun’s prayer to materialize.  I want to be clear, I am not faulting the evangelist; my goodness he had already spent 20 years in prison for serving God.  I can understand being a bit hesitant (but it is still disobedience).  Yet I am startled by God’s response time in contrast to “the final answer” being experienced. 

This leads me to again ponder prayer and our role in it.  I often utilize the end of chapter nine and beginning of chapter 10 in Matthew to illustrate this concept.  Jesus is concerned about those without a shepherd, He tells His disciples to pray for God to send out laborers into His harvest (Mt9:36-37), and then we see Jesus calling the 12 disciples…and then sending them out.  In other words, the disciples were the answer to their own prayer. 

Rolling all of this together I cannot help but wonder; how many times has God “answered” a prayer by telling someone to go…but the answer is delayed (or never arrives) because of a hesitant (disobedient) person?  Some may scoff at the idea.  Yet this flows not only out of Yun’s personal experience – but also the Bible.  

We are at war.  I know this, but events are happening around me that are reawakening me to this reality – again.  I pray this is the last time I need reawakened; I want to stay alert and engaged.  I also pray that I do not hinder God’s answer to the prayers of others…or my own.  Give us strength O Lord.  

Answered Prayers...

What if God answered all of the prayers you prayed today with a "yes" - what would happen?  I do not remember when I first heard that question.  I would give the person credit...but I am sure he or she heard it from someone else too.  

What if God said "yes" to your prayers?  Would the Kingdom of God have grown and reclaimed captives from the kingdom of darkness thanks to your prayers today?  Would people you know have confessed sin and reconciled with another?  Would the hungry have been fed?  Would the abused have found relief?  Would addictions have been broken?  Would the forgotten have found love and acceptance?  Or, would you have gotten a better parking spot at the mall?  Would you have found your lost keys a bit quicker?  Would you have gotten a better score on that exam?  Would...

All of my girls are asleep right now (Melissa - wife; Ellei - 3yrs & 4mo; Charis - 8.5mo).  I am usually not a night owl.  In many ways (some may disagree with this, but) I could be...yet I know sleep is important for me; so quite often I go to bed earlier even if I am wide awake.

Not long ago I spent time praying over all of them - my girls.  I will not go into a great amount of detail, but the largest portion of my prayer included them to a) have an accurate view of God as Father, to b) be sure of who they are "in Christ", and to c) be truly conformed and guided by the Holy Spirit.  Why those things?

Before I answer "a" let me say this.  All parents wound their children - in some way.  There is not a person alive who has not, in some way shape or form, left their home environment "unscathed".  I should also add that the overwhelming majority of the time (though I may be heartbroken to learn the truth) the wounding is unintentional.  The truth is hurt and wounded people hurt and wound others.  It is a vicious cycle.

So why pray my girls have an accurate view of God as Father?  Among other things this will help them to run to Him instead of from Him.  It will help them rest in His love, grace, and acceptance rather than think they have to perform to earn His approval.  It will help them to trust Him - even when life does not make sense.  I know I am flawed, and while I hope my love toward Ellei and Charis (leaving my main "girl" - Melissa, my wife - aside for a moment) will help them to understand God on some level, I do not want my failures to hinder them from truly knowing God as Father (or slanting their view of Him as Father).

Why pray for them to know who they are "in Christ"?  Because being "in Christ" is what truly matters.  In Him we have forgiveness, acceptance, access to the Father, and Spiritual Gifts (to name a few).  When one is sure of being "in Christ", it becomes their identity.  An identity will tell a person know what to do.  I trust knowing who they are "in Christ" will keep my girls from being shaped by the world - which will only let them down, or worse...

Why pray for them to be truly conformed and guided by the Holy Spirit?  Because apart from the Holy Spirit we can do nothing for the Kingdom of God.  Apart from the Holy Spirit a person seeking to live for God is likely among the most miserable people on the face of the planet.  I want my girls to be full of joy as they serve their King...their Father...in the power of His Holy Spirit.  

There are more reasons for praying those three things; I may flesh them out more later.  Yet I also know I am in need for a continual reality check in relation to God as Father and my identity "in Christ" as I am transformed by the Spirit for His glory.

Lord teach us to...

If you could ask Jesus anything, what would it be?  This could be a search for an answer or it could be for help.  So, what would it be?   

I find it interesting how the disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to raise good children.  Oh wait, that isn't in there...  I find it interesting how the disciples asked Jesus to help them have a good marriage.  Oh wait, not there either...  I find it interesting how the disciples asked Jesus to help them manage their money better and even to have more money to pursue the "American Dream".  Whoops, not there again...  I find it interesting how the disciples asked Jesus... 

From my (admittedly) limited knowledge of Scripture, the disciples only asked Jesus to teach them how to do one thing - pray. 

I am not sure what I find more interesting a) how Jesus answered their question or b) how many Christians do not pay attention to His answer (at least that seems to be the case).  I wish I could grasp the depth of Luke 11:2-4 (Jesus' answer).  The words in our English text look too simple, too unassuming, too plain...  Is that really all the better the Lord of the Universe could do? 

At this point I must be honest, prayer is a mystery to me.  I do not understand it - but I want to.  I do not pray enough - but I want to pray more.  I have not paid attention enough to it in the Bible - but I am starting (again).  For some reading this who know me these admissions may come as a bit of a surprise.  Forgive me if I have put on a facade which would indicate I know more about prayer than I do.  I try to be honest...but I do not know if I have publicly ever said prayer is a mystery to me.  I look forward to exploring the mystery the next few Sundays.  Believe me, we will not come even close to scratching the surface (let alone exhausting it) - but it seems the journey of knowing prayer deserves looking at it for a while, reflecting, implementing, and then returning to it at a later date...

What about you?  What do you not understand about prayer?  What have you learned?  We learn best (and apply what we learn best) in community.